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Boys have fooled, misled and broken the hearts of women. On behalf of my entire gender, I apologize. I’m sorry that there are people out there who are mentally immature, rude and unappreciative of how amazing of an individual you are.

I believe that forgiveness is the only way for true peace and recovery to transpire, but we should never forget. You must realize what happened, but never assume that the next man in your life will be so cruel.

So many men have learned the tricks of the trade and have found ways to earn back your trust to make you think they are some kind of Prince Charming, only to reveal their true colors when times get rough.

Women of the world, I hope this list will help you find the man you deserve. I truly believe that love is out there for everyone. Understand that there’s no perfect man out there; in some way or another, we all have flaws.

It’s important that we acknowledge our flaws and try to correct them to the best of our ability. Someday, you will be the one helping your friends find a man who can compare to the amazing one in your life — your modern day Prince Charming.

Without further ado, are 10 key traits to look for when you think you may have found a guy who is worthy of your time.

*this post in no way intends or encourages anybody to judge anyone or everyone*

1. See how he treats his mother.

If a man cannot respect or treat his own mother with love, care and affection, how can he love and respect someone he hardly even knows?

2. What are his friends like?

Are all of his friends immature? Do they go to the bar every single weekend looking to score? A man puts himself in environments that best fit him. If his friends are childish, chances are he is, too.

Sometimes, men have several groups of friends: one for drinking, one for sporting events, etc. The key is to discover to which group he shows his true colors the most. But this should not be your criteria to judge him completely

3. He has goals in life.

Big or small, it’s always important to have goals. Discover his goals and figure out how he prioritizes them. For example, if getting a “sweet pair of Prada shoes” is more important than landing a well-paying job, say goodbye.

I’m not saying he needs to have his whole life plotted out, but he should have a good idea about his ideal future is and hopefully, you are a part of that future.

 

4. He’s passionate.

He knows what his talents are a. He has a passion for everything in life and he lives his life with a purpose and also tries to improve everyday

5. He’s understanding.

He’s always in control of himself and his actions. Instead of letting his raw emotions get the best of him, he rationalizes and tries to empathize . He understands that people make mistakes and we are only human.

6. He Reads

Doesn’t matter what , he should be a reader . He should be able to concentrate as well as multitask , and you know if he is your type of person by the books he reads . Probably if he buys you a book rather than a drink , Marry him

7. He’s confident.

Confidence is the food of the wise and the liquor of the fool. There’s a fine line between being confident and being cocky or arrogant.

8. He has a soft side.

Men need to understand that it’s okay to have a soft side. It’s okay to show your true feelings and be vulnerable. There’s nothing worse than someone, whom you know is hurt, lashing out and growing a hard exterior shell to shield him or herself from the outside world.

9. His manners are on point.

There’s a time and a place for everything, and sometimes, letting out a few f-bombs can be appropriate. Otherwise, he holds the door open for you, tells you you’re beautiful (and means it) and well Chivalrous on a date and casual as a friend/with friends over coffee is the one you should look for.

10. He takes care of himself.

Men who take cares of themselves are becoming a rarity. Many men are out of shape and look like they dressed themselves in the dark. I’m not saying if a man doesn’t have a six-pack, he’s un-dateable because that would be incredibly unfair and shallow.

Rather, I’m simply saying that a man should have self-respect for himself, should want to take care of his body and should at least try to make himself look presentable.

 

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